The first date is indeed a bit psyching and exhilarating. You’re getting to know someone new and the entire thought of “she just might be the ONE” is always thrilling.
But you’re anxious and wondering whether or not she’ll like you and want to see you again.Below are some tips to help you through the first date and up your chances for a second one.
Choose a suitable first date. You want to get to KNOW her. A movie isn’t good for this. A movie allows you to spend 120 minutes or more with a woman in silence and after the movie, you don’t know any more about her than you did before. A nice dinner and drink is always a good way to get to know each other.
Dress fittingly. First of all, IRON. If you don’t know how or you’re not good at ironing, take your shirt hot out of the dryer and hang it. Women don’t want to see you wear a crumpled shirt on a first date.
I’m not saying that you have to dress up in luxurious attire but dress for the date.
If you’re going to a dinner in a fancy restaurant, dress in a nice pair of dress pants and shoes with a nice shirt and sport coat. If you choose to wear a tie, don’t do the clip on.
Many women can spot it and they see it as being sluggish. If you’re going to an Applebee’s or equivalent, wear some khaki pants and a nice shirt or sweater. For any dinner date that’s a first date, stay away from jeans and sneakers. There is nothing erroneous with wearing jeans and sneakers for some outdoor first dates.
After the date and when you take her home. Walk her up to her door; depending on the vibes you’re getting from her, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug. If you kiss her on the lips, don’t stick your tongue down her throat. If she’s into that so soon, let HER take it to that level.
And if she asks you up to her place or inside her house, don’t assume that you’re going to get sex or that sex is her objective. Sure it COULD be but not always. And it would be wise to tell her that you’re very engrossed to her, (if it went well) and that you’d like to see her again but that you want to take things slow and wait until the two of you know each other better. That will put you apart from the many of the guys in a good way and you’ll gain some good points for being the gentleman.