Give her five minutes to hang out in your living room and get familiar with it.
Let her absorb where you live and realize that it’s not some weird, scary place. Better yet, pour her a glass of wine so she can relax for 5-10 minutes while you handle whatever you need to handle. Relax her.
And then, come back into your living room and tell her, “ok, I’m finished, let’s go.” Take her out on the date as planned.
The psychological effect of this is massive. I don’t care if you live in a multi-million dollar mansion or a tiny apartment. You have allowed her to see and experience your home, and now she knows that it’s all good.
Later tonight, when you suggest going back to your place, her mind is not going to swarm with negative possibilities (such as, your place is a filthy mess…it’s extremely far away…you’ve got roommates…or, you’re living with a girlfriend or wife! Yes, women wonder about this stuff!)
By using this tactic, you’ll massively increase the chances are her agreeing to come back to your place when the date is over.
(For some rejection-proof lines you can use to invite her back to your place later tonight, watch this video on Attraction Secrets.)
Just sure your place is very clean! This is more important than anything.
And by the way, the average bachelor’s definition of “clean” does not match up with a woman’s definition. I’m talking spotless.
Hire a maid/cleaning lady if you need to, to come in once a week—and make sure your bathroom is absolutely friggin’ perfect. There is a 75% chance that when she comes inside for the first time, she will ask to use the bathroom. One of the fastest ways to turn her off is to have a grimy sink and toilet bowl.)
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