Everyone can learn something about how to date more, how to attract the types of people we want to attract, and how to make sure initial chemistry blooms into an enduring relationship.
Pick those you have a good chance of dating. Be truthful. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a charm girl or boy and want to date someone fashionable and elegant, great! Just know that others will expect you to be the same.
Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups anything that might help you meet like-minded possible partners. You will not meet people by staying indoors and playing video games many have tried and failed at this approach.
Take time off from dating intermittently if it’s not going well or causing dating fatigue. Recharging your batteries and keeping self-confidence and optimism levels high is a complete must. We all hit rough patches, but don’t let your search for love become a death march. Date in phases if necessary.
Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and mingling and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not play a bigger part in your life down the road. The fact is, most people have something interesting to offer. While you may not be out on the dating scene looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.
Never make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery, do not sleep with your dates early on. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. (And yes, this goes for both men AND women!) If the attraction peaks too early, your feelings may never have time to catch up and the relationship will eventually wither away.